Biblical men are active, not passive. They accept responsibility, lead courageously, and pursue the greater reward

This was the mantra that was ingrained in each of us at the Impact 360 Manhood Retreat. From Thursday to Saturday, we embarked on a journey of learning, reflection, and brotherhood—one that challenged us to step into true biblical manhood.

Our first session unpacked this mantra, with Adam Story contrasting it against the example of Adam in Genesis. Adam was passive—he stood by while Eve sinned, ignored his responsibility, failed to lead, and lacked an eternal perspective.

My biggest takeaway? Being a biblical man is a choice. It’s not something that just happens; I must choose to be active, to take responsibility, and to lead those around me.

The second session focused on the wounds many men carry—wounds that shape how we lead, love, and live. We discussed four specific wounds:

  • The Absent Father Wound: Every son needs his father’s time, tenderness, and training. Without them, he struggles to understand his identity.
  • The Overly Loving Mother Wound: While a mother’s love is essential, a son also needs the guidance and strength of a father to grow into a balanced man.
  • The All-Alone Wound: Men need social, emotional, and spiritual depth in their lives. Even one strong friendship can radically change a man’s path.
  • The Lack of Manhood Vision Wound: Without a clear vision of biblical manhood, a young man struggles to grow into a godly leader.

One of the biggest lessons I learned? Seek out older, godly men to help identify blind spots and guide you forward.

In our third session, we explored the different roles of a biblical man. Each role plays a vital part in shaping character and leadership.

  • The Warrior: Fights for justice with righteous tenacity.
  • The King: Leads with strong moral convictions and character.
  • The Friend: Remains loyal, challenges others, and builds meaningful relationships.
  • The Lover: Is vulnerable and sacrificially cares for others.

As I reflected on these roles, I saw areas where I needed to grow. I felt especially called to develop as a warrior—someone who stands for truth—and as a friend—someone who builds up those around him.

More Than a Retreat—A Brotherhood
Beyond the teaching, this trip was filled with moments of community, competition, and deep conversations. The night before we left, the students led a time of vulnerability and accountability. That moment alone made a lasting impact on me.

This retreat wasn’t just about learning—it was about living out biblical manhood. I left encouraged, challenged, and more committed than ever to seeking wisdom from others and staying disciplined in my faith.

If this weekend taught me anything, it’s that biblical manhood isn’t just an idea—it’s a daily decision. And I’m ready to make it.

To Him be the Glory,
Bryce Sherwood
Class XIX